It is common knowledge that one’s ability to express one’s love for one’s partner–both verbally and physically–is important to the success of a relationship. However, the majority of the public would be thankful if you waited a little longer until you got home. Not to say that all forms of physical affection are inappropriate, but there is a fine line between what you should be doing in a high school alongside your peers, and what you should save for when you and your partner are alone. While it’s understandable that you want to show affection for your partner, it’s important to consider the appropriate time and place. The school hallways, bustling with students trying to get to their next class, are not the ideal setting for prolonged displays of physical intimacy.
Now let’s consider the purpose of school hallways. They are meant to be pathways for students to travel between classes, not makeshift love nests. When displays of affection become so intense that they disrupt the flow of foot traffic, it can be frustrating and even disrespectful to others trying to get to their classes on time.
Additionally, excessive PDA can create an uncomfortable environment for those around you. Imagine trying to have a conversation with a friend while a couple next to you is engaging in a full-on make-out session. It’s distracting and can make others feel awkward or even unwelcome in their own school. The entire student body is thanking you for keeping your mouths to yourselves.
So, what can you do if you find yourself wanting to show affection to your partner during the school day? Keep it simple and respectful. A quick hug or a brief hand-hold can convey your feelings without disrupting others or breaking school rules. Save the more intimate moments for when you’re in a private setting.
While a little bit of PDA is understandable and even healthy in a relationship, it’s crucial to be mindful of the time, place, and intensity. Schools are shared spaces meant for everyone to exist comfortably. By keeping displays of affection appropriate and respectful, we can create a more positive and comfortable environment for all students at Shorewood. Let’s make sure our love stays in the right place – not blocking the hallway.